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I Woke Up on a Curb in a Clown Costume. That Was My Bottom.
My name is Mike Cinelli. This is the story I never thought I'd tell — and the reason Real Life IT exists. I didn't wake up to an alarm clock. I woke up to the smell of asphalt and vinegar, my cheek stuck to a concrete curb, bits of gravel pressed into my face. My body screamed at me from the inside out. I had passed out on a street somewhere, drugged on Xanax I didn't even remember taking. When I finally got my eyes to focus, I looked down. I was wearing a clown costume. Purp
Mike Cinelli
May 82 min read


Willpower Never Worked For Me — What Finally Did
The honest truth about why most attempts at change fail — and what actually creates lasting transformation. Have you been trying to change something in your life and keep finding yourself back at square one? It's probably not because you're not trying hard enough. I tried hard for twenty years. Hundreds of attempts to quit. Hundreds of promises to myself and to the people who loved me. Hundreds of fresh starts that ended the same way every time. I wasn't lazy. I wasn't stupid
Mike Cinelli
May 83 min read


You Can't Fix What You Won't Face
The honest truth about why most people stay stuck — and the three numbers that can change everything. There's a reason most people never change. It's not because they're lazy. It's not because they don't want to. It's not because they lack the resources or the information, or the support. It's because they refuse to look honestly at where they actually are. I know this because I lived it for twenty years. I knew I had a problem. Everyone around me knew I had a problem. But kn
Mike Cinelli
May 83 min read
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